tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post1035973741225106690..comments2024-03-29T04:41:13.129-06:00Comments on Author Elana Johnson: Thoughts About How We Talk About BooksElana Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05877856005992028912noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-75172106448530046042012-08-27T13:51:36.633-06:002012-08-27T13:51:36.633-06:00I agree with Tom M. Franklin. When I read reviews...I agree with Tom M. Franklin. When I read reviews I'm looking for someone honest who will tell me one book is more accomplished in its crafting, characterization and story than another - otherwise it's not a true review and we're wasting our time writing and reading it. Once you throw yourself into the big publishing shark pool you've got to be ready to be judged, it's part of the thrill and the challenge. If we're all 'good' it gets pretty bland.Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18409264464416090411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-1336872233023625582012-08-24T23:16:05.041-06:002012-08-24T23:16:05.041-06:00I think this is great advice. Out of respect for a...I think this is great advice. Out of respect for authors who put their heart and soul into a manuscript, they all deserve a chance.Valerie Ipsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15958210886138097232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-58556188685681159362012-08-23T12:09:02.596-06:002012-08-23T12:09:02.596-06:00Excellent advice! Excellent advice! Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210398194494998143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-63190046095742838492012-08-22T19:14:26.383-06:002012-08-22T19:14:26.383-06:00I absolutely agree. Books are a personal experienc...I absolutely agree. Books are a personal experience between the reader and the words. If the experience wasn't what one reader hoped for, it might meet the expectations of another. Nice post!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-7211646758487897182012-08-20T17:21:14.089-06:002012-08-20T17:21:14.089-06:00I try to do this. I point out the I liked and ment...I try to do this. I point out the I liked and mention what I didn't but try to make sure I let them know it was my own taste that made me not like it.Jenny S. Morrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00482342313938669366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-501600037876365162012-08-20T11:43:58.818-06:002012-08-20T11:43:58.818-06:00I think this is great advice. Especially online, i...I think this is great advice. Especially online, it's never cool to talk negatively. I like to stick to finding things I do like. I don't need any enemies!Jessie Humphrieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11096043821002254348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-7830750789208887852012-08-20T11:37:12.241-06:002012-08-20T11:37:12.241-06:00I completely agree! Opinions are so subjective tha...I completely agree! Opinions are so subjective that we never know what one person may like and another may not. I'm like you, I never tell someone not to read a book just because I didn't like it, because you never know.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05130733681254163610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-17427077907159498702012-08-20T10:20:22.622-06:002012-08-20T10:20:22.622-06:00Awesome point! I totally agree with you! I often s...Awesome point! I totally agree with you! I often see book bloggers say they will be honest in their reviews and say if they don't like it. While I don't disagree with honesty, I always feel guilty giving someone a bad review. I think simply saying it wasn't for you but others should try it out themselves is a great happy medium! Go you! :DLiesel K. Hillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03860816358217211833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-83486991507156764882012-08-19T08:39:42.469-06:002012-08-19T08:39:42.469-06:00This is spot on. Like everything else in life, our...This is spot on. Like everything else in life, our tastes differ so much. I think it's so much more interesting for people to read the same book and talk about it than to be turned off by a book all together. That's what makes book clubs so much fun to be a part of! lisa and laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18144863275895761642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-87278104308039102322012-08-19T06:45:53.067-06:002012-08-19T06:45:53.067-06:00Yeah, I don't think we should be telling peopl...Yeah, I don't think we should be telling people not to buy books. Even books I thought were mediocre have sometime had an aspect that has inspired my own writing. An example is XVI. Not a favorite of mine, but the idea of a society that sexualizes women to such an extent sparked an idea for a dystopian short story I wrote that's getting published this year. All books stay with us and influence us in some way. <br /><br />I try to keep strong opinions to myself, unless it's a hugely successful author who is probably not going to see or care about my opinion. But I do try to be honest, balancing the positive with the negative. Theresa Milsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03477761307315565259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-1566232693395867222012-08-18T08:34:01.097-06:002012-08-18T08:34:01.097-06:00When I review a book I'm not crazy about, I fo...When I review a book I'm not crazy about, I focus on what I did like. Just because something isn't for me, doesn't mean it's not for a whole lot of other people. I don't want my tastes to sway anyone else. Unless I love a book. Then I gush and tell everyone to buy it. Otherwise, I focus on the positive and let my blog readers decide for themselves.<br /><br />I'll add that I never say I hated a book. I would never disrespect another writer like that. Kelly Hashwayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13936313159809041986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-79775562885098035322012-08-18T08:25:38.126-06:002012-08-18T08:25:38.126-06:00i think you are spot on, good lady. (also, i defin...i think you are spot on, good lady. (also, i definitely thought you were the puppy hater ;) )<br />I'm always very careful to make sure that if i tell someone i didn't care for a book, to let them know that it is my opinion alone and their mileage may vary. Hell, i don't even love the same books that my identical twin sister loves, and our tastes are, as mentioned, nearly identical so if even we don't see eye to eye on all things, then no way everyone else will.Sarah Ahiershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02795455714801965956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-51469039096095783492012-08-18T07:36:59.539-06:002012-08-18T07:36:59.539-06:00I quit reading reviews because I find people will ...I quit reading reviews because I find people will bash a book I love, and if I had listened to them, I would have missed out on a great book. I listen to those friends of mine who have similar taste to me. I NEVER let a review influence my decision to read a book.<br /><br />I've never seen anyone tell people not to buy a book in the review. That's a strange thing to do. I guess I've never heard that it's all subjective.Stinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11415189347501942340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-18638401168662910992012-08-18T04:20:23.876-06:002012-08-18T04:20:23.876-06:00I agree. It's like it is with everything in li...I agree. It's like it is with everything in life. Everyone has their own taste and likes and dislikes. What one person finds amazing, could be completely dull to someone else. That doesn't mean that the book is bad, it just means that it's not mine. It's a subjective business. <br /><br />Even when someone tells me that a book sucks or they didn't like it, if I really wanted to read it, I'll read it anyway to form my own opinion. But I know a lot of people will take someone's opinion for granted and not think that way.<br /><br />Great post, Elana! :) Carolinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04672721013291961453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-26411296201509205982012-08-17T20:16:57.372-06:002012-08-17T20:16:57.372-06:00When I talk about books at my blog, or maybe do a ...When I talk about books at my blog, or maybe do a Me, Myself and I discussion, I tend to mention things I liked or didn't like in regards to my perspective. I also mention who the target audience is or who a book will appeal to and encourage people to check it for themselves.<br /><br />I've come to realize there are some books - like other things in life - that I love and others will just hate it. Vice versa can happen. But to tell someone NOT to buy a book just doesn't work well for me. Maybe it's because I'm a writer and I wouldn't take issue with someone not liking my book. Maybe want to crawl under a rock and cry my eyes out, but that would be their opinion to dislike my book and they're entitled to it. But others around them are also entitled to a chance to form their own opinion and that's just a had thing when someone's screaming "don't buy...blah, blah, blah." Oddly, people actually can think for themselves.Angela Brownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03324366495151363782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-80453930649147261802012-08-17T16:52:27.498-06:002012-08-17T16:52:27.498-06:00Yeah, telling people not to read a book is a bit l...Yeah, telling people not to read a book is a bit like trying to take away their freedoms. If you spell out in a review all the things that you don't like about the book, that should be enough for anyone to make the decision to read or not read it, on their own. Even encouraging others to read it is fine because no two people are always going to have the same opinion on any given book.Cathy Keatonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18356112948372149785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-48109466613928886452012-08-17T16:42:25.388-06:002012-08-17T16:42:25.388-06:00I agree that specifically telling someone they sho...I agree that specifically telling someone they shouldn't buy a book--particularly if there is no explanation--is not a good idea.Golden Eaglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08721520451194318436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-6772375324840904422012-08-17T16:33:27.073-06:002012-08-17T16:33:27.073-06:00Agreed. We all have different tastes & that...Agreed. We all have different tastes & that's what makes it fun and intersesting. There are a lot of books out there I won't enjoy, but that doesn't make them bad books - just not for me. I would hope no one would have the exact same taste as me - that would be icky!Jemi Fraserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02214408467456320167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-10581281269846947182012-08-17T15:54:30.942-06:002012-08-17T15:54:30.942-06:00I so agree. I'm really into just saying positi...I so agree. I'm really into just saying positive things about books. If I can't say anything positive, I try not to say anything. And what we like and don't like is so subjective. My opinion is just mine.Natalie Aguirrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03756087804171246660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-71283925192774809912012-08-17T14:42:06.495-06:002012-08-17T14:42:06.495-06:00You're right...as agents are fond of saying in...You're right...as agents are fond of saying in form letters, publishing/writing/books is/are so subjective.<br /><br />As a would-be author I find it hard to say anything bad online. I will say if I loved something or it surprised me in some good way, but with the liked/okay/ or didn't like ones, I'm more likely to just summarize them on my blog.<br /><br />However a blogger chooses to do it, you're right, it should always be clear that it's just their opinion.Jennifer Hoffinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07616744694563644199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-13167389701531671202012-08-17T12:03:46.130-06:002012-08-17T12:03:46.130-06:00Ugh, I don't know why anyone would go out of t...Ugh, I don't know why anyone would go out of their way to tell people NOT to buy a book. Reading is so subjective. I won't always like what you do, and vice versa. This has nothing to do with the book, just one's taste. :) <br /><br />If books get people reading, that's all that matters. :)<br /><br />Hope your summer was great Elana--I'm sure your students are happy to have you back to themselves!<br /><br />AngelaAngela Ackermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01808259088625142389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-3720602142823993492012-08-17T10:47:42.055-06:002012-08-17T10:47:42.055-06:00Agree. I would never tell anyone not to buy or re...Agree. I would never tell anyone not to buy or read a book. Unless there are strong moral objections and I know the person well enough to know it would not be a good situation. If asked I will give an honest opinion of how it affected me but I let them make their own choices. S.P. Bowershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09746614009206426805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-89002351290457366992012-08-17T10:07:41.945-06:002012-08-17T10:07:41.945-06:00I wouldn't be able to finish a book I didn'...I wouldn't be able to finish a book I didn't like. Yes, I have some piling away somewhere. But I agree. It is subjective and everyone has different tastes. Something to think about.E. Arroyohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06634213563563094173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-65377893551460811612012-08-17T09:30:50.498-06:002012-08-17T09:30:50.498-06:00I try to only review or rate books I liked. If I&#...I try to only review or rate books I liked. If I'm not going to give it a three to five stars, I leave it alone. Someone else might like what I don't, and it's not fair to discourage them from picking it up. Some people like spinach and some don't, but we wouldn't protest against spinach, would we?<br />I also tend to accent the positive in my reviews. Once again, not everyone will agree on the things I didn't care for, so I don't make a big deal of that.<br /><br />And P.S. thank you for being you and sharing so much with other people. WriteOnCon was amazing again this year. I almost didn't come due to several traumatic events in my life, but I thought I'd take a peek and then I thought I'd just put up some little thing in the forum and then I got fully involved. It was the best thing for me.Tricia J. O'Brienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05993110400088806252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058478111996476699.post-43000812910549241102012-08-17T09:28:24.004-06:002012-08-17T09:28:24.004-06:00I'll agree... up to a point.
If I'm not t...I'll agree... up to a point.<br /><br />If I'm not the target audience, I'm more than willing to hold back on my opinion if someone asks. In fact, I usually ask tell them I'd really like to discuss the book with them after they read it to get their take on it.<br /><br />However, if a book is just badly written or makes me angry at how poorly the subject matter was handled (and, yes, I feel that passionately about books) I will tell someone exactly how I feel about the book.<br /><br />I am, of course, equally as passionate about books that have impressed the bejeebers out of me. <br /><br />I'm all for encouraging reading, but why shouldn't we be honest about our negative feelings about some books if we're being honest about the positives?<br /><br />-- TomTom M Franklinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05168232678401202091noreply@blogger.com