Like that's gonna happen. Ha! But really, he did beat me in a couple where I gave him a head start.
Typing. Exciting times. But it did give me this blog post. One of the quotes we typed included this line: "Focus on your own performance rather than on the competition."
The beginning part of the quote we typed said something about how sometimes a car in front of you can be good motivation, and then it went straight for the jugular with the whole "focus on your own performance" line.
I mean, seriously. It's so perfect for writing! Sometimes we are motivated by those who are ahead of us on the track. We see them and what they've done, and we have hope that we can replicate their success.
Sometimes we have to be the lead car. Sometimes we're blazing our own path.
And sometimes we just need to focus on our own performance, putting blinders on to everything else around us.
Where is your focus right now?
I mean, seriously. It's so perfect for writing! Sometimes we are motivated by those who are ahead of us on the track. We see them and what they've done, and we have hope that we can replicate their success.
Sometimes we have to be the lead car. Sometimes we're blazing our own path.
And sometimes we just need to focus on our own performance, putting blinders on to everything else around us.
Where is your focus right now?
That's a good motto. We have to focus on our own path. It's the only one we got!
ReplyDeleteWhat a perfect quote. I remind my children (and myself) of this on a regular basis. We relate it to swimming. When my children swam I was always telling them that winning a particular heat wasn't important. Their goal was to always improve their fastest time and swim their best. This is so true in writing. Shouldn't we always be trying to improve upon our previous best?
ReplyDeleteThanks for this great reminder today, Elana!
Great quote and an excellent post. It is far too easy to get sucked into comparing yourself to everyone else. My husband keeps telling me: "Look how far you've come." Maybe it's about time I started listening to him!
ReplyDeleteI tell my students not to be intimidated by those who speed through a test and finish in five minutes. They were probably guessing.
ReplyDeleteI like that! Finding our own pace & goals is important. I'm currently deciding on what type of publication I want to pursue - tough choices!
ReplyDeleteLove the observations here. Yeah, I'[m focusing on edits. Ugh.
ReplyDeleteLove this idea of inward focus and also living by "it takes as long as it takes." Thanks, Elana.
ReplyDelete*snort* There's a reason for that wisdom in the book. If you're not focused on your own performance, you might crash, and die in a fireball. Fortunately that doesn't happen with writing. Right? At least I hope it doesn't?
ReplyDeleteMy focus is on finishing right now. Finish the synopsis, finish editing it, finish editing the query, finish this first draft, etc. I have a lot of irons in the fire right now, project-wise. Basically when I'm not at work, I'm working on something related to writing. (Like right now, focus on networking.)
ReplyDeleteI've got the blinders on right now. And I've never been more productive :)
ReplyDeleteThat is a very true quote. Sometimes, we can can trip ourselves up by focusing on what others are doing because we eventually lose sight of what we're doing or what we've truly accomplished. Also, we may look at what others have accomplished and get bogged down by the disappointment of not doing the same as "the Joneses". So it is very important to focus on our own performance and channel our energy in doing the very best we can...whether in writing or any other thing in life.
ReplyDeleteSuch a great quote to focus on. I'm just focusing on moving along to querying at whatever pace I can manage given everything else going on in my life. And that's okay for me right now.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Elana! I like that quote.
ReplyDeleteLove that quote. I'm focused on drafting right now, and trying not to get distracted by what others are up to. Seems to be working (mostly).
ReplyDeleteGood motto. No matter what there will always be someone on a different part of the path, or who is better at a certain element than us. Comparing ourselves only causes depression and makes us want to quit. And quitting is the only way to lose the race.
ReplyDeleteToday, my focus is on the road. Holy wow, it's actually moving. And I love that. Great post, as always.
ReplyDeleteWonderful quote! We can get waylaid paying attention to others accomplishments, when what really matters is our own.
ReplyDeleteWow. That's pretty profound.
ReplyDeleteThat's a GREAT quote! That's so true. Thank you, E.
ReplyDeleteSo true! Works not just for writing, but all aspects of our lives. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing that encouragement with us! :)
Great advice! The most challenging times are when that focus starts to waver.
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ReplyDeleteWe usually compare ourselves to the person leading the pack, who is on the inside track with a professional support team in an amateur race.
ReplyDeletePersonally I like demolition derbies. :)
If I keep focusing on the cars around me I'll lose sight of the finish line.
ReplyDeleteNOT happening.
My focus has been on candy and laziness. But I'm about to change that dad-gum!
ReplyDeleteGood advice.
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