Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Leaving Your Mark Behind

Okay, so today is Day Two of The Awesome Blogging Trifecta. Check your parachutes. Jen, Alex, and I are attacking COMMENTS. Be sure to check out their posts/opinions too. (Note: Alex will post on this tomorrow.)

So comments. We all want people to appreciate our words enough to leave a comment. We think it's a sign of our success, a way to indicate the worth of our blogs. But is it?

Quick Answer: YES.

Here's why. If you don't inspire something inside of someone, they won't feel like they need to leave their name behind. And if they feel obligated, it's not the same as genuinely evoking something inside of someone. Those comments you can feel.

So, how do you do that? How do you move someone to comment?

1. Comment--sincerely--on their blog first. I'll admit that my own comments are the first stop for me. I open my comment box and click on your name to get to your blog. I really try to get to everyone. Sometimes I make it, sometimes I don't. (See Special Note below.)

*small personal aside*

I refuse to feel guilty if I don't make it. Sometimes I don't get on my own blog until 8:30 or so, and the post has been up for 3 1/2 hours, and I'll have 35+ comments. What would your first reaction be? Mine is usually: holy-overwhelmed. There's no way I can keep up.

I might make that an email day, but not everyone has allowed blogger to show their email...and you should. Just sayin'. I might try to work through my comments ten at a time. I do as much as I can before I run out of time and/or I just can't do any more.

One more thing: When I was actively building my blog (and I still am, I'm just not as Nazi about it), I probably left 75 - 100 comments/day, Monday - Friday. I steadfastly refuse to blog on the weekends. I don't read, I don't comment.

*end personal aside*

2. Ask questions. If you give someone something to answer, they might be more willing to leave a comment. I almost always ask a question. Some of you answer it, some of you don't. Either way is fine with me, I'm just trying to give people something to respond to.

3. Share something personal. People read my blog for me, not necessarily what I have to say. (We're talking about "What to Blog About" on Thursday, so stay tuned!) People want to make a connection with another person. I don't want to wax poetic what to blog about here, but consider letting some of yourself show on your blog. I generally get more quality comments when I do this, even though it terrifies me to let you inside my head.

How-To-Get-More-Comments-Tip: POACH. When I was actively building my blog, I had a goal to get to 10 lesser-visited blogs* every week. How did I find them? I poached from other people's comments. You should poach from mine. It A) gives you a new blog that maybe you don't follow and B) if you make an effort to comment regularly on that new blog, they'll probably come to yours.

Tip #2: Visit a new blog every day for one week and leave a comment. Then make an effort to go back at least one/twice a week until they're yours.

Do you have any tips about getting comments that I haven't covered? I know I've asked this before, but what inspires you to leave a comment here, or on another blog?


*lesser-visited blog: A blog that has great content and a great author, but has none or almost no comments. If you're the only one who leaves a comment there, do you think that person's going to remember your name? You betcha.

**Of Special Note: You must only do what you can do. No more, no less. If you don't have time to open a billion blogs and leave a comment, don't. And don't waste a single second of your life feeling bad about it. You can only do what you can do. That's it. I'm merely sharing what I did, and what's worked for me. If you have the time and inclination, you might try it.

Special Note #2: Tomorrow I have a special launch with a killer giveaway, so I won't be blogging about blogging. But you'll wanna be here anyway so you don't miss out of the frawesome!

89 comments:

juliakarr said...

Great post, Elana! I love your tips & will take them to heart! Thanks!

Natalie Aguirre said...

Great idea to poach as you call it. I agree if you comment on a person's blog, they'll tend more to comment on yours. I also think your personal touch of e-mailing back a response helps. I think it's easier for you to do because you can e-mail from work.

Talli Roland said...

Totally agree with the question thing! I like blogs that make it easy for me to comment. Also - I prefer posts that are on the short side.

Great tips!

Cynthia Watson said...

Elana: Good advice & by the way, I love your new picture - very classy!

Samantha VĂ©rant said...

With a new blog, I was wondering how to increase traffic/comments, etc. Thanks, Elana. Sweet advice. Let the poaching begin!

Matthew Rush said...

Crap! You guys started yesterday? On the holiday? I'll have to catch up.

You give great advice as always Elana, I remember a short post you did about blogging when I first started, I quickly changed several of my settings to make is easier for readers to take part. It has helped a lot!

One bit of advice about comments that you didn't cover that has always worked for me is: Pay it Forward. I find that the posts that get the most comments are ones in which I am being selfless, giving back to the community by highlighting another writer, or helping someone with their query. Being humble, and giving back seems to engender participation, and that's wonderful!

Another thing to keep in mind though is that comments aren't everything. Some people do lurk. I've even had some conversations with agents and or very prolific bloggers who have admitted to reading my blog without commenting. Do I wish they would? Sure. But reading is better than nothing.

Use Google Analytics or a similar tool to find out how many people are reading each post, not just commenting.

Thanks Elana!

paulgreci said...

Thanks, Elana!! It's also fun to visit new blogs. It's like having a little cyber-adventure:-)

Vicki Rocho said...

Loving this series! Sometimes I don't leave a comment if there are already 20 comments all saying the same thing I was going to say. Exception to this seems to be congratulations. If someone is sharing great news, I'll add my "woo hoo" to the hundred others because they deserve it.

Stina Lindenblatt said...

I like blogs with questions at the end, tho I don't often have one on my photography and cool links Friday post. Some people just let me they love my photos or thanks for the links, and that works for me. :D

I can only imagine what it feels like to have 35 emails/comments first thing in the morning. I feel overwhelmed when I discover 5 (and I haven't yet visited their blogs), and now I have to stop blogging for the morning. The worst, tho, is when they have a super long post, or they're involved in a blogfest. I hate blogfests.

Christina Lee said...

This is great advice! I have nothing to add to the awesomeness. Off to check out the others.

Christina Lee said...

This is great advice! I have nothing to add to the awesomeness. Off to check out the others.

Laura Pauling said...

I think we all understand that writers are busy. And honestly, I don't expect bloggers with 50 comments to get back to everyone. Eventually, I might stop commenting if it's a one way relationship, but if I like the blog, I'll keep reading. Again, it's all about relationship.

lynnrush said...

Lovin' this series. :-)

Connie said...

I have a blogging question. How do you get lurkers to become followers? Thanks to Blogger's new stats "toy" I've realized that I have of A LOT lurkers--how do I translate that to followers? Any thoughts?

I'm honestly thinking of just asking and giving directions in case some people don't know how to become a "follower." (I've discovered that people my age--40 and up--are not nearly as likely to try computer-related things w/o directions.)

Dominique said...

Thanks for the great tips. Now, if you'll excuse me, I have some poaching to do. ;)

Theresa Milstein said...

Way back when, I read the tip to leave a question at the end of a post. If there's one to ask, I do.

Now that I'm near 300 followers, with about 40 or 50 comments per post, I'm finding it hard to keep up with all the commenters' blogs. I don't know how you do it. I'm usually a day behind in getting to their blogs. I like when people don't post everyday because then I feel like I'm not missing too much.

And now that I have this # of followers, I'm seeking out new blogs less and less. There's only so much time!

But I see your comments everywhere. You're impressive!

Kerri C at CK Farm said...

Great post and so true!

Hey that's how I got addicted to your blog. I was a wee little blog that just hatched and doing EVERYTHING wrong. Then along comes Elana leaving nice comments, and I go say HI back and be like OH cool blog. Yeah, something like that.

Jen said...

Nailed it!!! Excellent advice Elana! It seems we use the same skills (just call them different things) which I adore :)

Just proves the methods are effective and should be continued to use!!

Bish Denham said...

Thanks Elana. Another advice filled post.

Michelle McLean said...

another excellent post :) I've found a lot of cool blogs through the comments on other people's blogs. If I see a comment that I find funny or interesting, I'll always click through and check that person out. It's a great way to make new connections :)

Kelly said...

Great advice as usual, Elana!
I love the poaching! I've done that but never came up with a term for it. Poaching! Great idea and I've found great blogs because of it.
I'm so glad you also included the Do what you can do at the bottom. You want it to stay fun, not overwhelming.

Zoe C. Courtman said...

The part that really sung to me was about refusing to feel guilty. I have a hard time getting my freelance projects done, my novel work done, and family stuff. More often than not, the blog just falls by the wayside. Then I don't feel so much guilt as a quick gust of left-out-ness. But I figure I'll have to just be left out because I haz work to do. Sigh. The balance, man. The balance... :/

Ishta Mercurio said...

I've started doing the question thing after noticing that you were doing it, and I get more comments now, so that idea worked for me!

Leaving all those comments sounds daunting, but I guess I could take a "schedule it in" approach to it where I set myself a time limit - say, an hour a day - for that kind of thing.

Can't wait for your contest!

Jared Larson said...

Wow! These are awesome posts Elana. Exactly what I need right now as I'm trying to build my followers. If anything, you've really helped me out in my efforts. Thank you.

Bee said...

I like this. How with all the tips and jazz you make that special note of not feeling bad about being unable to do more :)

I do the questions thing too..but I can't do them for all posts (Or can I? Hmm..)

I hopped over from Jen's blog, and umm, guess what..I'm sticking around :D

Lindsay (a.k.a Isabella) said...

Great post, Elana.

I'm the one who eels guilty when I can't get round all the blogs I foolow, or reply to comments straight away. But everyhting you said makes sense.

Plus, I do love an email reply. It makes me sad when I can't reply to a comment because there's no email link.

Talei said...

Hi Elana,

I also hopped over from Jens blog, I have some reading to catch up on with this Trifecta Series,its definitely a great idea.

I like your comment that 'You can only do what you can do'. I feel you know when someones rushed a post for the sake of putting one up. I do try to pose a question where warranted, its definitely a great way (dare I say easy cue) for readers to pickup.

Looking forward to hearing more tips! Thanks so much for sharing!

Danielle said...

This is good advice - I'm already trying to use some of it!

I feel a bit weird asking a question at the end of my blog, probably because I have so few followers, and people rarely answer it. I end up feeling oddly rhetorical...

And I applaud your non-blogging weekends. Aside from my post on Sunday nights, I usually don't do anything blog-related on the weekend, either. I do enough during the week!

Summer said...

I wish more folks would have their email address in their profile--that's pretty much exclusively how I respond. It's so easy, and I find you really facilitate deeper relationships when you email back a forth a couple times over one comment.

Erica Mitchell-Spickard said...

I really like that you add the "not feeling guilty" part because although I would love to be in the process of building a stronger healthier more personal (although my latest is about as personal as it gets) blog there is only so much I can do in a day and I will admit that there are some days I just don't feel like blogging (lately especially). However, the advice is solid and I'm grateful for any new follower I get and the comments left behind from those who visit. At the end of the day that's all that matters ;)

Shannon O'Donnell said...

You are so right about lesser-visited blogs. I will forever adore Sharon Mayhew because she was my first "real" follower. My favorite blogs today are still those I first fell in love with. :-)

lbdiamond said...

Nice tips! Love the poaching one. ;)

C.E. said...

I really appreciate this blogging trifecta this week!

Getting some great info.

You aren't the first to say to comment comment comment on peoples blogs. I always thought I would be annoying to keep popping up but now that I have read it several places in one day, I'm starting to understand!

N. R. Williams said...

I followed you from my blog comment section just as you recommend in your post. I know that I really appreciate people who leave comments and wonder why others don't. So I try to leave a comment on every blog I visit.

Happy to meet you, have joined and will follow.
Nancy
N. R. Williams, fantasy author

Candyland said...

Your notes make this post!!! I do as much as I can and try not to feel guilty when I can't do it all. Great tips, but of course, it's you! Why *wouldn't* they be awesome?!!

Holly Ruggiero, Southpaw said...

The asking a question thing has helped for me. I think that the post itself is what truly pulls people in to comment but I don't know what the magic post contains to get those comments.

I read though comments on other people blogs and if I find there comment interesting, funny, or whatever, I will check out their blog.

My most commented on post had photos I took of colorful mushroom. That was unexpected. My series of posts on colors have either few comments or a lot. I think the color influences them to comment. Really.

I don’t have my email on my profile, but I did add a link to my contact form.

Alex J. Cavanaugh said...

As my list of blogs grows, I'm learning not to feel bad I can't visit them all.

Melody said...

I don't reply to comments (unless they're a question) that don't have an email with their google profile. Because, as you said, there's only so much I can do!

I'm enjoying this series! Keep it up!

Anita Saxena said...

For awhile there, I thought I was steadily building readership of my blog. But then my blogging became irregular, visiting other blogs became less frequent, and I soon found I had reached a readership plateau. It takes work and networking to build up followers of your blog, and you have made some excellent points of how to do so Elana. Thanks for sharing.

Lisa_Gibson said...

Great tips! I found some great blogs by poaching too. I try to leave a link to my blog in my signature as well, so I'm just one click away. :) I always love your blog. I learn so much.
Lisa ~ YA Literature Lover

arlee bird said...

In my blog post yesterday, which was related to the topic of the Trifecta, I asked a lot of questions and I was totally impressed by many of the responses I received. Commenters really put a lot of effort in what they wrote and some of the comments were like posts in themselves. Now that's the kind of commenting I like to see.

I agree wholeheartedly with the "poaching" issue. I have found so many great blogs and attained some really fine followers from this method.

Some more great information, Elana!

Lee
Tossing It Out

Pam Torres said...

Another great post. I have found some wonderful blogs by checking out your followers. I appreciate all your great advice!

Have you thought of doing blog critiques upon request? I'd love the feedback.

Also, you have several blogs for different purposes. I just figured I would allow my blog to morph as I grew as a writer. When is it necessary or beneficial to create another blog?

Carrie said...

You give such great advice about blogging. It was actually reading a post of yours about commenting when I first started following blogs that made me realize that comments are important and helped me not be as shy about leaving comments. I like asking a question.

Valerie Ipson said...

Will you address the whole google analytics, tracking possibilities that are out there?

Thanks for the tips!

Roland D. Yeomans said...

I liken the blogverse to high school. We're all learning as we go along. We all want to be liked.

But don't you remember the kid in high school whose whole manner screamed "Like me, please!"

Sadly, that person tried too hard to be everything to everyone. It consumed them, driving people away and not towards them.

In like manner, I think the blogs that succeed are the ones that make you feel good after having gone there :

that make you laugh.

that make you feel not quite so alone.

that gives a shoulder to lean on

that gives a hint on how to make things better.

My job consumes a lion's share of my time. I try to make each comment supportive and worthwhile to read.

Asking questions seems a great idea. Joining blogfests can expose you to many bloggers you would meet in no other way. I know I have met many great friends that way.

I'm doing a serial experiment currently on my blog. It is allowing me to ask questions in story form, such as : How would your characters feel about you if they knew you created the trauma they've been going through?

This is a great series. Thanks, Roland

Liza said...

More wisdom. Thanks!

Melissa said...

These are some really, really great tips. Thanks Elana.

I try to comment on all the blogs I follow as much as I can and I definitely noticed a difference from when I had a blog and didn't participate in the blogosphere to when I actively started putting myself out there. Not only did it make it more fun for me, I also started developing some really cool relationships with people online.

cleemckenzie said...

Thanks, Elana, especially for the word, poaching, and the advice, "You must only do what you an do." Yep. I totally hear that.

Natalie said...

You are seriously my blogging hero Elana. I have no idea how you can do all that you do! But those are all excellent tips. I especially like the one about sharing something personal. I'm a whole lot more likely to leave a comment if I feel like the blogger has put themselves out there.

Tessa Quin said...

*Poaches Ishta* Well, okay, I already had her since WriteOnCon. I guess that could be a point to: follow WriteOnCon people and they might follow you back! Those were some awesome people, I tell you.

My internet activities became so overwhelming some weeks back that I had no time to write. Or when I did have time, my head hurt from the previous internet activities. These activities were mainly studying writing, reading blogs and posting blogs. I forgot the main rule of writing: Write!

So I set some ground rules for myself, and I post only a few times a week (like you, I refuse to blog during the weekends), and I only skim over my Google Reader and stop by a few posts that look interesting. I also only use the internet in the evening (although it's only 4.40 PM now - Bad Tessa!).

Okay, so I'm polishing my ground rules a bit, but I plan to write an hour before going online each morning.

Kelly Dexter said...

I try to find something that inspires me to comment on a post, whether it be the post topic as a whole or the way the blogger chooses to phrase something. If I can't find a detail that elicits a genuine response, then I don't comment, rather than leave something generic.

Thank you again for the terrific advice!

Tamika: said...

I knew I was going to love this series! All the blog hopping can be overwhelming at times, but in the grand scheme of building a following it's necessary.

Overall, I like to know that people are commenting out of geniuneness, and I like to leave comments for that reason.

Krispy said...

It's great to hear about not letting yourself feel guilty. I know I get overwhelmed sometimes trying to keep up with everything. But it's true - you can only do so much in a day. Thanks!

The Golden Eagle said...

Great advice here! I love clicking names on people who've commented and poaching from other blogs--it's fun to see who's out there.

Ellie said...

I love "don't feel guilty"; I do sometimes, but life gets in the way!
All of these are great, some I do already, some I will consider. One
tip I have is to join a group. This gives you a chance to push yourself, by doing something new. I did this
with Lee of Tossing it Out Blog. He came up with an A-Z blogging challenge for April. I met a lot of new bloggers and really enjoyed it!
I recently threw caution to the wind and tried the Thursday Think Tank on Poets United. Another opportunity to test my wings!
Thank you, for taking the time to share your guided wisdom~

Shannon Whitney Messenger said...

Such great advice! I've done many of these things--though I definitely wish I had more time to blog hop these days.

Sorry I missed the series yesterday. *rushes back to check the earlier post*

Margo Kelly said...

Pam mentioned "blog critiques" - - interesting and yet scary idea. That could be very helpful for many of us!
:)
Margo
www.margokelly.blogspot.com

Erin MacPherson said...

Elana- This is SUCH a helpful post. I'm scribbling down notes as I read it. So thank you! And, FYI, since I see you have 57 other comments today, don't even think about clicking over to mine... I don't have anything new to say today anyway!

Sondrae Bennett said...

I found you through unedited and I must say I love this whole trifecta post! As someone who's actively trying to build a blog, it's incredibly helpful! I'm anxious to visit Alex's page tomorrow!

Sara B. Larson said...

This is very good and effective advice. I try very hard to read and respond to the bloggers who comment on my blog, but some weeks are easier than others. I can definitely see the difference in the amount of comments I get when I do though!

Erica Chapman said...

Great post! I agree. Especially about the question thing. I just learned that this year. Makes sense, though.

I try to visit new blogs, I have a huge list, but I'm more of a sporadic poster. Can't wait for Thursday's post. I need that advice for sure ;o)

Corey Schwartz said...

Poaching? Ha! I've done it. But I've never called it that :)

Patti said...

My question is do you respond to comments by email or do you respond by commenting on your blog? I'm still torn which way to go.

Cinette said...

Where have you been my whole (blogging) life? You definately have a new stalker, er, I mean follower in me;0)

Cinette
http://cinettesmusings.blogspot.com

Jeffrey Beesler said...

With all the blogs out there it's so hard for me to respond to them all. So I usually read a few a day, the ones that usually catch my eye with a great title and context. If I see no one else has left a comment on the writer's blog, I definitely will stop to comment. Sometimes I'll comment even if I'm 65th down the list.

Great ideas and suggestions. I'll definitely think about implementing some, if not all, of them.

Angela Ackerman said...

You are so amazing. I know you've heard this before from me, but really I am in awe at how much you accomplish.

When I started I made sure to always visit every commenteur but I am ashamed to say that I can't keep up with it and everything else I do. I make the effort to make rounds as much as possible, but often it isn't a 1 to 1 basis.

I can only hope that my content will make up for the fact that I have had to slow down my rate of response. My heart is in the right place and I hope people know that. But I know my limits, and if I want to dabble in all the different areas of social networking, mentorning, critiquing, blogging and forum moderating, I have to understand I can't do it all.

Hugs to you Elana! I so greatly admire you, your honesty, and your willingness to help others. You make the blog-a-sphere a wonderful place. :)


Angela @ The Bookshelf Muse

Lisa Potts said...

Oooh, a killer giveaway? I'm intrigued.

Funny that you mentioned your no-blogging zone on the weekends. Saturday and Sunday are the only two days I can really get to new blogs, but I look forward to it. Perhaps I'll poach from yours this weekend. Muwahahahahaha.

Nicole Zoltack said...

It's like in order to have friends, you have to first be a friend. To get comments, you have to leave comments. Makes perfect sense.

Terry Stonecrop said...

This is a great series! Thanks for the tips. I love comments, even better than blogging. It's just fun to chat with people, to disuss ideas and sometimes our lives.

Marieke said...

I definitely have to try poaching! *lol* Looking forward to the next blog tomorrow!

(And randomly, love the disclaimer in yesterday's post!)

Elana Johnson said...

Pam -- blog critiques?? I'm totally intrigued, but I can't email you! I will try to find a way to get in touch with you. :)

Thanks, everyone! Today is an email day, as I actually had to work at work today. *eyeroll* Go figure. I've responded to everyone who has their email showing. :-)

Melissa said...

Yes, I've done the blog poaching thing. Also, I've found some cool blogs through Twitter.

I also noticed that when I put a question at the end of my posts, more people started commenting. It's a great way to get people to interact with you.

Sarah said...

Awesome tips, Elana!

Jai Joshi said...

Great advice on comments, Elana. With all the comments you get you obviously know what you're talking about.

Jai

G said...

Again, not everyone feels comfortable leaving their e-mail out in thier profile.

I don't leave mine out there because I've been stalked and harassed elsewhere on the Internet.

Ever been stalked and harassed? Trust me, its something you never want to experience. That's why I never leave my e-mail in my profile and that's why I always return to a blog that I've made a comment on to see if the blogger has responded to it.

RaShelle said...

Hey Elana - Thanks for the additional information. =D

Elana Johnson said...

G, again, I totally hear you. I have never been stalked online, and I can't imagine how horrible it would be. I understand completely why you don't leave yours out there. Hopefully, some of the other things in this post were helpful. In no way am I judging you or anyone else who doesn't put their email on blogger. I'm glad you have time to come back and check the comments. Many people don't. I don't. So email is faster and more convenient. But again, I understand that some people are not comfortable with that. Thanks for the reminder.

Jemi Fraser said...

For me blogging is all about the connections I've made with fabulous people around the world. I love finding out what they have to say, and I love their opinions on what I post.

I'm still working at the guilt thing about not getting to each and every post - that would be the OCD side of my personality at work :)

ali said...

What I'm enjoying about this trifecta (*grin*) is that it's helping me feel good about the good bloggy behavior I already have, and to recognize where I could be stronger. *IF* I want to be stronger. Because I really love having a personal connection with my readers and I have to admit, I worry about getting too big (like your blog is BIG) and losing that personal touch.

You always do a great job responding to me and E? You can leave me out if you're having a hard day responding to everyone. I already know you love me. :)

Karen Lange said...

Very good stuff. Thanks! Loving this series.

One thing I really like to do, and you covered this I know, is to encourage newer or lesser visited bloggers. I got such great support when I started (and still have great support:) and I so want to be an encouragement, like others have been to me.

Off to implement some of your tips...

Angie Ledbetter said...

I don't care how busy/tired/blind you are; you BETTER answer my comment AND come by to visit! LOL

Seriously, nice post. Get some rest. Your readers are solid and devoted, so you deserve to rest on your laurels and previous hard work.

roxy said...

Hi, Elana. Great advice. Everyone loves a good comment. We all want to connect. Thanks for reminding me how to do that better. I always ask questions at the end of my posts, and I've yet to be disappointed in the answers.

Heather said...

You're right. What inspires me to comment isn't just good blog content but the person behind the blog. I love that personal connection.

Laura Lofgreen said...

This is what I love about your blog. You always have some great information to give away. That's why I keep coming back.

Meredith said...

I love poaching from other people's comments! There are so many amazing blogs out there, and I get to discover new ones every week. Thanks for the advice, Elana!

Annette Lyon said...

Great advice--I learned a lot of this the hard way over a period that took too long. (Wish I had this post four years ago!)

I've had to pare back my blogging/commenting a bit because it can get so time-consuming, and if I want to, oh, actually WRITE, I need time for that.

Thanks for permission not to feel guilty over occasionally zeroing out my reader. :)

Lynda Young said...

I'm really impressed with the number of comments you three make. It does take a lot of time to read through everyone's blog and comment but it's worth it. Thanks again for the tips :)
Lyn
W.I.P. It: A Writer's Journey

Jackee said...

All such great advice, but this is what I needed to hear the most:

"I refuse to feel guilty if I don't make it"

Word.

:o)

gargimehra said...

Oh, man! 75-100 comments Mon-Fri? Dear God, I don’t think I’ll be able to manage half that much! Now I know what I’m doing wrong (or not doing, rather!). That, and the tip about commenting on lesser-known blogs are brilliant. Thanks again for this series, and for stopping by my blog!

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